January 21, 2011

The Towel-Eating Dog Story

Here's the whole story about how Hattie became the Towel-Eating Dog:

On February 13, 2009, Doug and I took the dogs for a walk.  It had been raining all day, but the dogs needed to do their business, so we tried to go out when there was a lull in the rainfall.  When we came back inside, the dogs were wet from both puddles and the rain.  After drying them off as best as we could, they were still slightly damp.  We felt bad for them, so we put towels in their crates with them so that the girls could cuddle up and get warm.  They were older towels and the one that was put in with Hattie had frayed edges.  Apparently, overnight, Hattie tore some of the towel apart.  We collected all of the pieces, but since it was scraps, we didn't try putting it back together to find out if there was any missing.  Hattie seemed fine, so Doug and I went about our business, going out for Valentine's Day and not giving it a second thought.

When we came home from church on February 15, Hattie was happy to see us and acted like nothing was wrong.  A little while later, while we were watching football, Hattie threw up.  In the vomit was a piece of the towel.  When I tried to go grab the piece out of the vomit, she ate it back up.  Gross, I know.  Because she had eaten a sock earlier in the week and passed it in its entirety, I wasn't really worried about the piece of towel.

By Monday (the following day), Hattie wasn't really eating and what she did eat wasn't staying down.  That evening, I gave her rice to try to calm her stomach.  Bad idea.  On Tuesday morning, about 4am, she woke me up with a cry that I could tell meant she was in pain.  It was such a pitiful cry, I felt so bad for her.  I went to her crate and she had thrown up what looked to be a few gallons of bile, rice, water, etc.  Later that morning, I took her to the vet.  They gave me medicine and told me to keep an eye on her and bring her back on Friday if she wasn't any better.  That evening, she pooped, so I thought, ok, maybe she just needed to move everything through her system. 

All day Wednesday and Thursday morning, Hattie didn't seem to be getting better, but she wasn't getting worse either.  She was keeping the medicine and food down, but she hadn't pooped.  We had planned on going to Florida for the weekend, so we were trying to decide whether or not to stay or go ahead with our plans.  I decided to call the vet on Thursday afternoon to get their opinion.  (There is a branch of the vet in Florida, where we would be, in case she needed care.)

Two side notes about the previous paragraph:
1) Doug and I had gone to Olive Garden for Valentine's Day and I called them to make a reservation.  For whatever reason, it was towards the top of my "previously dialed numbers", and when I went to call the vet, I called OG by accident.  I didn't hear the greeting when someone answered, so I just began telling the person about what was going on.  "Hey, this is Ellery ______ and I brought my Great Dane, Hattie, in on Tuesday.  She hasn't pooped since Tuesday and I'm a little worried."  About that time, the poor girl on the other end of the phone said, "Um, ma'am? You called Olive Garden."  Well, I guess she didn't really care that my dog had bowel issues then, huh?
2) My mom had planned a surprise bridal shower for me to coincide the weekend that Doug and I would be in Florida.  When my mom found out about Hattie's predicament, she started sweating bullets that we were going to stay in Alabama and the "bride" for which the bridal shower was for would be MIA.  Therefore, she told Doug to keep her apprised of whether or not we were coming. 

When I called the vet, she told me that it was fine if we took Hattie to Florida, but just keep an eye on her and if she gets any worse, take her to the vet ASAP.  If she is still the same by Monday, bring her back in when you return from Florida.  So, I put her and put Waveland, who at that point was only about 10 weeks old, in the car and started to leave the apartment to pick Doug up from work and get on the road.  Before we ever left the apartment's parking lot, Hattie started heaving.  I put the garbage can under her mouth and she barfed in it.  I cried the entire 45 minutes to Doug's work because I was so stressed about what was wrong with my dog.  I was still not thinking the towel could have gotten stuck, because it was such a small piece.  The rest of the 12 hour drive, Hattie slept and didn't get sick again.

Doug and I went somewhere on Friday, while leaving Hattie at my parents' house.  When we got back, my mom told me that Hattie was acting very lethargic and her gums were pale white.  We immediately took Hattie to the vet.  After several tests, it was determined that she had a blockage and that if she was not operated on in the next 24 hours, she would die and even with the surgery, they couldn't guarantee that she'd make it.  Because the blockage had been going on for almost a week, her intestines may be dead or dying.  I felt like SUCH a horrible parent that I let her be in pain and sick this long.  The doctor told us that she must be in INCREDIBLE pain, but she was being very stoic and not showing any signs of pain, even in her belly.  They told us to bring her back the following morning to have the surgery, that they told us should only take "a couple hours".

Doug and I spent the night holding Hattie's legs down, so that she wouldn't curl up.  We discovered when she curled up, she was cutting off circulation and that's why her gums were turning white.  The next morning, we took her into the vet, not knowing if we were going to see her again.  We then went to Doug's parents' house and crashed on the couch, since neither of us had slept the night before and his parents' house was closer to the vet.  When we called a few hours later, Hattie was still in surgery. 

Unbeknownst to me, this was also the day of my bridal shower and therefore, Doug had very strict instructions to keep me away from my parents' house until it was time.  All I wanted to do is go cry on my mom's shoulder because she knew how much Hattie meant to me.  Obviously, we couldn't do that, so Doug found other things we could do to keep my mind off of Hattie.

On the way to the bridal shower, some 4 hours into the surgery, we stopped by the vet's.  Because I had previously worked at that vet, they let me in the back to see her, while she was being operated on.  It broke my heart to see her like she was.  I was sad we had to leave, but according to Doug, my mom had planned for Doug's mother and grandmother, my mother and myself to all go out to lunch, so we needed to get going.

About 2 hours after we left the vet, and in the middle of my bridal shower, one of the nurses called to tell me that the surgery was over (finally!) and Hattie was recovering well.  That really cheered me up and allowed me to enjoy my bridal shower.  Her surgery ended up taking 6 hours and parts of both her small and large intestine were removed due to necrosis.

When we picked her up, we saw that she was cut from her sternum to her crotch, which on a Great Dane is about a 3 foot scar.  She was on strict rest, was given tons of medication and a lampshade collar to keep her from messing with the sutures.  Because we lived upstairs, and she was definitely not allowed to climb stairs, my mom volunteered to keep Hattie while she recovered.  My mom made "medical meatballs" (wet dog food balls with pills stuck in the middle), which Hattie loved.  She didn't like wearing the collar or not being able to run around a lot. 

Two weeks later, we returned to Florida to pick Hattie up and to take her to the vet to have the sutures removed.  Everything looked great and Hattie had made a full recovery.  When we took her back to Alabama, she was back to her normal self, running around with Waveland and being a general goof.

We learned our lesson.  Now, the dogs don't get towels in their crates.  We dry them off as best as we can and then they get in their crates.

And THAT, my friends, is how Hattie earned the moniker "The Towel-Eating Dog".

January 20, 2011

I Heart NY

Yesterday, I briefly mentioned that I love New York.  I have been to places all around the United States and Europe and I can say, without a doubt, New York is my absolute favorite city. 


I first went to NYC in summer of 2005 with my family.  We stayed in midtown Manhattan, because we had gotten an amazing deal.  We definitely did all the touristy things you do in NY.  We went to Ellis Island, the Empire State Building, Ground Zero, Times Square, etc.  Unfortunately, the Statue of Liberty was closed still, so we didn't go there.  My brother and I rode the ferris wheel in Toys R Us.  My parents wanted to eat at the restaurant made famous by When Harry Met Sally, so we went there as well.  We had the best pizza I've ever tasted at Ray's.  Basically, I had a BLAST!!


The rest of my family didn't enjoy themselves nearly as much.  My parents thought it was a very dirty place and my brother thought it was far too hot.  Well, duh!, it's July and it's probably cooler here than it is in Florida.


Anyway, we went back to NY in the summers of 2006 and 2008.  I thoroughly enjoyed myself both times we returned.  In fact, in 2008, I ditched the family and walked around by myself.  I walked across the Brooklyn Bridge, went to Tiffany's and went to Central Park.


Unfortunately, I've only ever been to NY in the summer.  I would LOVE to go ice skating in Rockefeller Center, see the Rockettes and go on a carriage ride around Central Park while it's snowing.  I would enjoy seeing the leaves changing around the city as well.


Before I met Doug, I planned to move to NY to teach.  It would just be Hattie and me, two girls in NYC.  Hattie would protect me and I could venture around the city at my leisure during time off.  Riiight.  Because I'd have time off between my 4 jobs that I would need just to pay for my apartment.


I can't wait until my next trip to NYC.  I don't know when that will be (hint, hint Doug!), but I will cherish it for sure.

January 19, 2011

Hattie

In this post I explained how we acquired Waveland.  Today, I will explain how I became the mom of a Great Dane puppy.

When I was about 20, I decided I wanted a Great Dane.  I was raised with Beagles and although they are not small dogs, they are definitely not a large breed either.  I began looking for a Dane in Florida, but I wasn't very successful. 

I asked for a Dane puppy for Christmas of 2005, hoping that perhaps my parents would have better success.  On Christmas Eve eve, I had a dream that I was getting a mostly white-furred, blue-eyed puppy for Christmas.  My friend and I spent Christmas Eve at work coming up with names for this puppy I was sure I was getting.  Because I love New York, all of the names revolved around NYC- Taxi, Tiffany, TriBeCa, etc.  On Christmas morning, I went out to the living room to cuddle with my new puppy...that wasn't there.  My parents told me that they couldn't find a puppy in Florida and that the ones out of state would be too expensive for their Christmas budget. I was disappointed, but I understood my parents' reasoning for not getting me a puppy at that time. 

In February of 2006, I found puppies in Missouri (I'm sure there were some closer) and I began emailing the owner of the kennel.  She had just had some adorable puppies born and I decided I would buy one of them with my own money.  The only problem was that the house we lived in didn't accept big dogs.  Therefore, to avoid being homeless, I opted not to purchase a puppy at that time.

By May 2006, I knew we were moving to a house that would allow big dogs, so I contacted the woman in Missouri again and she happened to be having puppies at the end of the month.  When the litter was born, I looked at pictures of the puppies and decided on "Puppy #5".  I would be getting her at the end of July when she was 8 weeks old.

We went on a family vacation to New York (yay!) and Washington D.C.  The entire time we were gone, all I talked about was getting this puppy.  My dad didn't believe that I had actually bought a Great Dane puppy.  My mom and I tried to convince him to buy Hattie's sister, whom we had already named Gracie.  He almost went for it, but then at the last minute, decided against it.

Due to the incredibly high heat index in Florida, Hattie couldn't fly until the temperature was lower than 75 degrees.  Therefore, my puppy's arrival in Florida kept getting delayed.  Finally, the breeder called me and told me that the airline had cleared my puppy, along with a few others coming from Hattie's litter, to fly on July 28th.  She would be arriving about 6 in the evening and coming by way of Houston.  I dragged my brother with me to go to the airport to pick her up.  We left about 4 to make the 45 minute drive to the airport.  Can you tell I was excited??  Just as we were walking into the airport, my mom called me to tell me that Hattie's flight had been delayed in Houston due to a bad storm and she wouldn't be arriving until about 8.  My brother and I now had about 3 hours to kill at the airport. 

When Hattie's flight finally arrived, she was soaking wet and shaking.  She had been in a crate from about 3am until 8pm.  Apparently the airline wasn't allowed to take her out of her crate for safety reasons.  They did however, set her and 2 other dogs out in the rain in their crates.  I was very upset at the treatment of my (and others') pet.  However, my excitement over finally having my puppy outweighed my disdain towards the airline.  Manhattan was now mine.

Here are a couple pictures of Manhattan.

January 18, 2011

Reaction to My Pregnancy

As I have mentioned previously, Doug and I found out we were expecting a baby about 6 weeks after we got married.  We did not plan to get pregnant nor were we prepared for a pregnancy at that point.  Although, is anyone ever really prepared for a baby?

When we found out, we kept it to ourselves for about 3 weeks.  One, we were in shock that we were going to have a baby during our first year of marriage.  Two, if the pregnancy didn't work out, we didn't want to get the grandparents' hopes up, because regardless of the timing, grandparents-to-be are always excited.  Or so I thought.

During the 3 week holding period, Doug and I went to my brother's graduation from Army Basic Training.  It was here that I had my first bout of morning sickness.  Unfortunately, my parents and my aunt and uncle were there to witness my feeling ill.  Due to the sickness, both my mom and my aunt knew I was pregnant, but didn't say anything.

When we finally told everyone I was expecting, my parents were both very supportive and excited about a new grandchild.  Unfortunately, we also got some very harsh reactions.

Some of our family members told us that they "wished we had waited".  Um, yeah, us too, but it is what it is.  Also, I don't feel like it was the place of our family members to say this to us because we didn't ask them for money or help raising the baby, so why do you care when we have a baby?  Apparently, a year later, when we are caring for our child much better than a lot of people and giving him everything he needs and wants (or more accurately, what we want for him), these family members still believe that we shouldn't have a baby right now.

Other family members felt that the whole reason we got married was because I wanted a baby.  This is not true and they know that.  They felt that we were moving into the parenthood stage too quickly.  I agree, but the pregnancy was up to God, not up to me.  They chose to be in denial the entire pregnancy and therefore didn't show any love towards me or Weston.

Of course, at some point I wanted children, but I wanted to enjoy being married for a while as well.  Since I have a thing with numbers, I thought maybe having a 10/10/10 baby would be fun.  However, while Doug and I waited for the pregnancy test to confirm what we suspected, we told each other that if the test came back negative, we were not going to try for the 10/10/10 baby, it was just too soon.  It turns out that we became parents 3 1/2 months before 10/10/10. 

At times, I felt like a teen mom or that I should be ashamed of my pregnancy.  Hopefully with the next pregnancy, Doug and I won't receive such mean/harsh comments.  And if we do, I will try my best to ignore them and keep my head up.  Each baby is a miracle from God and although the timing may not always be the best, there is a purpose for every child.

January 17, 2011

My 26th Year

Two days after I turned 25, I got married. 

-As a side note, when we planned our wedding, I told Doug that just because my birthday and our anniversary were two days apart did not mean that he could just buy one gift and expect that it would "do".  It's kind of like having a birthday near Christmas.  If your birthday is near Christmas, some people try to cheap out and buy only one gift and expect you to spread it between two unrelated holidays. 

One month and 19 days after I turned 25, I found out that Doug and I were expecting a baby.

-Weston is an unexpected miracle and gift from God.  We definitely didn't intend on getting pregnant so quickly or having a baby within our first year of marriage.  Some people felt we were making a mistake, but that is its own blog post.

Nine months and 20 days after I turned 25, I gave birth to the most adorable and amazing little boy.

-Many strangers have commented that they think Weston is a "pretty" baby or the most handsome baby they've ever seen.  Of course Doug and I agree, but when he was first born, we thought people were saying that to be nice and that everyone says that to people with babies.  However, 6 1/2 months later, people still stop us to tell us how sweet and cute our baby is.  I'm flattered and hope that his siblings are just as cute.

My mom told me just last night that Weston is cuter than my brother and me.  I told her that she's wrong.  Your own children are cuter than your grandchildren.  The only possible way grandchildren are cuter is that you can send them back home.

I have got to say, my 26th year on this planet was the best yet.  Since I'm not getting married again, I don't think another year will be so eventful, but I hope Doug and I are blessed with several more children, which will make those years just as great at the 26th one was. 

January 16, 2011

Things I've Learned in 6.5 Months

Since becoming a mom, I have found I do things that I would have never done before Weston was born. Also, there are a few thing's Weston does that I figured I would not allow, but I do.  Here are a few items of Mommy-isms I have found myself doing or things Weston does:
  • Weston sticks his hand down my shirt and just rests his hand on my breast.  I let him keep it there because he it seems to comfort him.
  • I have gone out in public with spit-up and formula on me.
  • I will sniff Weston's back end to see if he's what we call "fresh".  Unfortunately, directly checking the diaper has resulted in many, shall we say, "dipped" fingers.
  • I pick my Weston's nose, with or without a wet wipe.
  • I have left the house and forgotten the essentials- diapers, blankets, burp cloths...
  • I songs that I find myself singing are not from the radio, but from Special Agent Oso and the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse.
  • I narrate everything I do during the day, even after Weston's asleep.
As my mothering goes on, I'm sure I will find that Weston or I do things I swore I'd never do/allow my child to do.

January 15, 2011

Week Wrap-Up

Since a lot of snow (for our area) was dumped on Sunday night/Monday we were unable to leave the house until Thursday.  Even though the main roads are pretty clear, parking lots and back roads are still very icy.  Therefore, Doug has worked from home all week. 

Since Doug working at home was just a temporary thing, he used our dining room for his office.  The problem with this is that our dining room faces the living room.  The same living room where Weston's toys are and where Weston and I spend most of our day.  This led to a noisy work environment for Doug.  If he worked from home long-term, he'd have to use the 4th bedroom as an office.

Also, I thought I'd enjoy having Doug home, but I really didn't.  This is because it was hard to determine when was work time and when was family time.  Even today, on Saturday, he's working.  At least when he goes to work, I know that when he's home, it's family time, not work time.

Since Weston and I were cooped up at home, we had to find new ways to keep ourselves entertained.  Weston learned this week how to pet the dogs.  Waveland loves going up to Weston and giving him kisses and now that he has learned how to pet her, it just reinforces her kisses.  He doesn't enjoy the overabundance of kisses that much.  Hattie lets Weston pet her, but only if she happens to walk by or lay down close enough to him.  She doesn't go out of her way to be near him.  Just wait until he starts eating real food and dropping it off the high chair.  She'll quickly change her mind!

Last night, we went to see The Dilemma.  It was an ok movie.  The movie was funny at times and it makes you think about what you would do in the same situation.  Weston did pretty well in the movie.  He fell asleep before the movie started, but then woke up about halfway through.  I fed him and then held him the rest of the time.  He fell back asleep on my chest, causing my arms and legs to be very asleep by the time we left.